The goal of all psychotherapy is emotional growth.
For the individual client, this growth is seen in the effective management
and ultimate resolution of one's anxiety or depression. For the couple,
it is in new understandings and more productive conversations which
then bring greater closeness. And for families, it is in the reinvention
and redefinition of its members to promote the successful raising of
children.
Psychotherapy has one foot in science and the other
in the humanities. The particular method or methods the therapist offers
to the client arise out of scientific study. Building a relationship,
however, is an art. The therapist works with the client to create a
unique relationship — one where the client has a place to bring
his or her struggles and get a kind of help which is otherwise unavailable.
I have been trained in psychodynamic, behavioral, cognitive
and family therapies, and this allows me great flexibility in matching
the method of treatment to the client's, couple's or family's situation
and needs. As appropriate, I will discuss adjunct forms of treatment
and make referrals to medical, self-help or specialized care.
Successful treatment requires respect for the client
and an "informed eclecticism" on the therapist's part. The
therapist needs to appreciate the multiple causes for problems and utilize
the competencies that the client already employs in managing his or
her life. And the relationship of client and therapist needs to be flexible
or firm based on the situation and the client's needs.
In my experience, change is hard work which requires
hope, direction, bravery and time – regardless of the method used.
A client wants to feel understood and guided during treatment, while
maintaining ownership of his or her life. There is no formula for achieving
that balance, only the give and take which arises out of a respectful
professional relationship between people.